Episode 87- Yulia Denisyuk, Travel Media Lab
Everyone works but everyone isn't in a career they love. Today’s guest should know because she has worked in the corporate world for over a decade & went through a lot of soul searching to find her passion. She had a great life, with nice things but wasn’t happy. So, at she left it all behind and did some exploring. And when it was over, she found herself bouncing around the world and not wanting anything more than to continue traveling indefinitely.
Today’s guest always thought that if she climbed the corporate ladder and became the CEO of an established company, she could finally travel around the world. But after being in a high-level position at her job, working so many hours that there wasn't any time for her to enjoy herself and it just felt like she was living in a perpetual cycle of work and nothing else.
Finally one morning, she told herself the corporate world was no longer for her. It was kind of a wake-up call that she desperately wanted to travel around the world. She has always been driven to succeed. The type of person that was willing to do whatever it takes to get ahead.
Yulia Denisyuk is an award-winning travel photographer and writer who turned to travel journalism after working as a US Navy Sailor and a Fortune 500 brand manager. Yulia's work appears in National Geographic Traveller, TIME, Conde Nast Traveler, BBC Travel, Lonely Planet, and more. For past assignments, she’s shared a roof with nomads in Mongolia, traced the origins of Iznik tiles with artisans in Turkey, and learned the art of Imigongo with artist collectives in Rwanda.
Yulia is the founder of NOMⴷD + JULES, a small-group travel company with trips to the Middle East. She’s also the founder of Travel Media Lab, a platform for women and allies in travel media, where she teaches the Introduction to Travel Journalism program and runs a membership for travel photographers and writers.
In this conversation, Christine and Yulia explore Yulia’s journey from climbing the corporate ladder to chasing her dream of becoming a freelance photographer and writer. She shares why storytelling is so powerful, and how travel can be a tool and becoming a more tolerant and open minded person.
Yulia truly is a gifted storyteller and loves helping others to pursue their passions.
Christine loved listening to workshops of Yulia’s in the travel community and learning more from her here in this conversation.
Join Christine for her soulful conversation with Yulia Denisyuk.
In this episode, Christine and Yulia discuss:
Yulia’s background and how travel has shaped who she is today
How travel evolved into capturing the images and stories of people and communities she encounters
Yulia’s journey from climbing the corporate ladder to chasing her dream of becoming a freelance photographer and writer
Why her work is rooted in the Middle East
She shares why storytelling is so powerful
How travel can be a tool and becoming a more tolerant and open minded person
Her work at Travel Media lab - who it’s for and what it is?
Resources & Links Mentioned in the Episode
For more information about Yulia and Travel Media Lab visit travelmedialab.co
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Credits. Christine Winebrenner Irick (Host, creator, editor.) Yulia Denisyuk (Guest). Original music by Clark Adams. Editing and production by Rayna Booth.
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Christine Winebrenner Irick 00:08
Thank you for joining me for soulful conversations with my community of fellow travelers, exploring the heart, the mind and the globe. These conversations highlight what travel really means for the world. Soul of Travel honors the passion and dedication of the people making a positive impact in tourism. Each week, I'll be speaking to women who are tourism professionals, world travelers and leaders in their communities will explore how travel has changed them and how that has rippled out and inspired them to change the world. These conversations are as much about travel as they are about passion, and living life with purpose, chasing dreams, building businesses, and having the desire to make the world a better place. This is a community of people who no travel is more than a vacation. It is an opportunity for personal awareness, and it is a vehicle for change. We are thought leaders, action takers, and heart centered change makers I'm Christine Winebrenner Irick. And this is the Soul of Travel.
Yulia Denisyuk is an award winning freelance travel photographer, writer and entrepreneur. She strongly believes that travel makes us better human beings, more tolerant, open minded and sensitive to cultures and viewpoints that differ from our own. She was born in Kazakhstan, grew up in Estonia and now lives in the United States. Her work has appeared in National Geographic Traveler, BBC travel afar Conde Nast Traveler, Lonely Planet and more. She specializes in art culture, artists and craft and ancient traditions. She traveled the world extensively and turned to a career in travel media after getting an MBA and working for more than a decade for large organizations. First as a Navy sailor, then as a brand manager at Fortune 500 companies.
In 2018, Yulia founded Nomad + Jules, a small group travel company to destinations that are often misunderstood, including experiences in Jordan, Oman, Morocco, and more. She is also the founder of Travel Media Lab and the host of the Travel Media Lab podcast, where she helps women storytellers get knowledge, support and confidence to publish their travel stories. In our conversation, Yulia and I explore her journey from climbing the corporate ladder to chasing her dream of becoming a freelance photographer and writer. She shares why storytelling is so powerful, and how travel can be a tool and becoming a more tolerant and open minded person. Yulia truly is a gifted storyteller, and loves helping others to pursue their passions. I've loved listening to the workshops of hers I've heard in the wonderful community and learning more from her here in this conversation.
Join me now for my soulful conversation with Yulia Denisyuk.
Welcome to Soul Of Travel, I am so excited today to be sitting down with Yulia Denisyuk, to talk about freelance travel photography and writing and the power of storytelling. And today feels like an extra special conversation. Yulia and I were just talking about the fact that we saw each other in real life last weekend, which feels like an anomaly to me still to start connecting with people and getting to get out from behind zoom, and really come back to the world of travel. So it's so exciting to see you here. And I'm also just so grateful that we got to connect last weekend so welcome to solo travel.
04:22
Thank you, Christine. Thank you so much for having me. And yeah, it's so special to meet somebody in person and then be able to connect like this as well. So I'm excited as well. I'm so glad I got to meet you in person and celebrate with you for your incredible win this weekend. Congratulations again.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 04:40
Thank you. Yeah, for those of you listening I had mentioned probably several months ago that sold travel was nominated for a Bessie award with wonderful community for my work and elevating the voices of women in the travel industry. And so as Yulia mentioned I won, which I was just because I'm so kind. Have tried to soak that in and realize even what that means. But it really means a lot given that that was the mission of this podcast. So I'm so grateful. You were there to celebrate, it just feels like this kind of full circle moment. Many of my other guests were there as well as their leaders in the travel industry. So yeah, it's just a pretty exciting time to think about, like all the possibilities, and try not to plan too many things. Once I had something like that. I'm like, oh, what's the next thing? Next thing? Next thing? I feel like you are a kindred spirit in trying to figure out how else can I create connection and community? And what else can I do to serve and so I'm trying to rein myself in, I already got told not to do anything else by several friends. This man, as I was leaning into the next thing, they're like, Christine, just stay still for a second.
05:57
And by the way, just a quick note on that. So there's this framework that I use for one of the programs I teach, called Dragon dreaming framework. And I love it so much, because it says that, for any project or anything that we want to do in life, there are four phases: dream, plan, do and celebrate. And what I love about that framework is that the Celebrate phase is just as long as the other three. And where else in our lives do we devote so much time to celebrating we don't write, we just move on right away. It's the next thing. So I encourage you as well. I'll just keep celebrating for now.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 06:36
That's so helpful. I was just talking with a friend. I'm like, I feel like I don't even know how to do that part of business. Like anytime I hit a goal. I'm like, Yes. Next goal. I'm very, very bad at celebrating. And I don't know if that's like not wanting to put attention on myself or just like not really knowing how to sit in that stillness and always wanting to move on to the next thing. So I'm sure for our listeners that I'm probably not the only one. So that's already some super valuable wisdom that you're sharing. So thank you so much. Yeah, so for those of you joining us, I have been so lucky to sit in on a few classes. This is how I met Yulia, in the wonderful community. If you aren't already a part of it, I know that we both would definitely encourage you to seek that out. But what I really love so much was this wisdom, and also this magical storytelling ability that you have, whether you're talking about travel, or photography, or just anything, you have a very captivating presence. And so that's what drew me in and I'm so excited for those joining us to get to learn a little bit more about you. As we begin, Yulia, would you mind just sharing a little bit about who you are in the space of travel right now?
08:01
Sure. And thank you for that. That's so wonderful to hear. I am a travel photographer, writer, and journalist. And I am very fortunate to be ungrateful to work with different publications around the world, that focus on travel, in selling stories about travel about people and places around the world. And hopefully inspiring others to travel a little bit deeper next time around and try to connect with people because I believe that's really the power of travel is when we connect with people from various places around the world. I also run Travel Media Lab, which is a community for women who want to break into the travel media industry. We do a lot of support there. And I also bring groups to Jordan which is like my second home now I just returned from Jordan last week actually. So bring small groups there because it just makes me so happy to share the love I have for that country with other people. So that's me in a nutshell, everything I do revolves around travel and storytelling. So I love that part of my life.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 09:11
Yeah, thank you so much for sharing that. Again, like I feel like that love is really present and very something aligned with how I believe travel feels and how I believe travel looks. And again, I think that's what really resonated. I was like, oh, that's someone who sees travel the way I see travel like full of opportunity and connection and stories and like magic. And so yeah, I can't wait to share that more as we go through this conversation. To get to understand a little bit more about you. When did you start traveling or when did travel start to become a part of shaping who you are now Yeah,
10:01
Well, honestly, since the beginning, since as long as I remember, my first solo trip was happening when I was five years old. My mom put me on a plane. And, you know, the plane took me to Kazakhstan, which is where my grandma was. And the flight attendant was the one sort of keeping an eye on me. But because of our family geography, my grandma was in Kazakhstan, which is where I was born. But my mom and I were in Estonia, where we moved when I was three. So ever since being three years old, we would every summer would travel back and forth, from Estonia, to Kazakhstan. And if you kind of know geography, it's a huge distance. And we usually cover that on the train. So I would, you know, be looking at all these huge, different landscapes traveling most of Russia, most of Kazakhstan on a train. And it's just, I don't know, there was something special about being on a train so early. And I absolutely love this idea of exposing kids to traveling into different environments early on, I think it shapes people in ways that we probably don't even fully understand. So travel was always a part of my life, you know, then I moved, I moved to the United States when I was 16.
And I continued to travel all throughout my formative years. And even when I, you know, years later, down the road, I ended up in corporate America, which anyone who has ever been in corporate America knows that traveling, while working in corporate America is quite hard, because the vacation policy is just abominable. You know, the kind of travel I wanted to do 14 days a year just was never enough. But I always try to manage to sneak it in. I remember going to Dubai, for example, on a weekend. So taking Friday off and taking Monday off and fitting a trip to Dubai in that time, like it was just insane. You know, so travel has always been part of my life, for as long as I can remember. And like I mentioned earlier, I'm just so grateful that now it has become an central part of my life, basically, in the past five or six years,
Christine Winebrenner Irick 12:14
I love that you mentioned kind of that wide eyed looking out at the world, as a young child, I feel like so many of the people that I've talked to have been lucky to have those experiences. And I really do think it shapes who you are, and how you see the world, you just have such a greater sense of the scale of the world. And, and at the same time, like I think it really gives you this humble sense of your place in the world. Like it really just shifts, how you feel about, about everything. I mean, I think this is why travel is so important. But like you mentioned for children to really become grounded in that sense of space and, and environment at such a young age. I don't know if I've mentioned it to you, but I'm getting ready to start planning a year of traveling with my daughters. And we're going to be leaving in a year from June. So actually, today, we were just there watching some cartoon about Scotland right now.
So they're obsessed with Scotland. And so we were listening to Scottish dialects, and they were practicing like language, but it's already really fun to just see them get curious about the world. And then thinking about, you know, what, then they'll know about the world after that period of time. I'm just so grateful to be able to even consider having an experience like that with them. But especially being the person I am in the space of travel. I'm really excited to witness their evolution. And I think maybe I should be more aware of that as it's happening than maybe some people would be because I'm always kind of focusing on that. And then you did mention that you ended up in corporate America, you know, working a lot and really dreaming about travel. I feel like that's definitely something we can relate to. I mean, even for me, even for me right now, I feel like I'm working, working, working, hoping to get to travel. There's something about shaping your life so that it can involve more of what you really love out of life. What was the catalyst for you to say, Okay, I'm tired of trying to do a quick trip to Dubai on the weekend, which really seems really crazy actually. Just that flight feels like a weekend's worth of traveling. But what made you feel like now is the time and what really gave you the permission I guess to take that step?
14:47
Yeah. It's a really excellent question, because the reality is that it's really hard to do that. When we are on that path, let's say a more traditional path to success. It is so hard. You get off that path, you have a job, you are growing in that job, you are starting to become respected and listened to, and you have a nice salary, you have security for that job, you know, 401, K, health insurance, all of that, right? Those things they draw you in. They keep you very much rooted to this lifestyle. And, you know, it's hard, it's hard to leave that's why, you know, it's still quite a difficult transition for a lot of people. So for me, it actually, I thought about it for many years, I dreamt about it, but I never did anything with it. Because of that reason, you know, because it's just really hard. And plus, being an immigrant, you know, we are very, there's a lot of pressure on us to succeed in the most traditional way of the world, my family still sort of thinks I'm crazy, by giving all of that away. But for me, the impetus was really my health. Because it was my last year in corporate, I just started. First of all, I reached the point of burnout, because I was working incredibly, like crazy hours. I wasn't happy doing what I was doing.
And I just I, at some point, I couldn't even understand why I'm doing this. I hated going to the office, I hated the environment I was working in, you know, but I was on this path. And so my body started giving me the science like, hey, something needs to change, you know. So that was my breaking point. Honestly, it was my body, I started having back issues, I couldn't even sit down at my desk at the office anymore. I had to work standing up. Every time I would come to the office, I started having anxiety, you know, it was like it was like that, that's how bad it got. So for anyone listening, if you're starting to see the signs, don't let them go to that stage. See the science before that, you know, so that was the impetus for me at some i One day, I just said no, something has to change here. I can't continue like this. And that's that's what, that's what gave it away. And the other thing is, the more practical consideration is that, at my job, my brand that I was in charge of, I was a brand manager.
So I was in charge of a brand, I was in charge of ap & l profit and loss for the brand, which is a huge responsibility, if it's a mill, you know, several million dollars brand. And the brand wasn't doing so well for many years now, due to different reasons in the industry. But I sort of suffered for it. The team let me go, they gave me a severance package. And they said, You know what, this is my cue. This is my cue that I can do something different with it. Because I could just easily very easily just pick up the call, I worked in a huge corporation that was very well known. I could just easily pick up the phone and say, hey, you know what, you know, give me a nice job for recruiters. But I didn't, I said, let me use this as an opportunity to jump off into the unknown, and do what I've actually always wanted to do, which is travel journalism. So that was the story.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 18:14
Wow, thank you so much for sharing that and for sharing it. So honestly, I think that so many of us see those signs in ourselves. And we're really taught as a culture to repress that or to not create the connection. And like you said, you know, you've set out on this path, you've had your checklist, you have followed all the rules, you've played all the things just right, and you've gotten to where you thought you needed to be. And again, this feels like a story that I have heard from many women that you know, we really feel like that's the path that we're meant to take. And it feels like you're doing all the right things. And yet all of a sudden, like for me, I really had stomach issues, and I got migraines, and I would get just really tired, just very tired. It's like my body's not interested in playing this game. You're just going to sleep. And when I start to notice that I'm like, Oh, wait, where now I know to say like, where am I out of alignment? Where am I pushing too hard with what's maybe not the thing that I should be doing right now.
But before I didn't know I just kind of like you just like crashed. And I am on my trajectory. I ended up getting laid off from a position right after 911. And so like, so things where you're like, Oh, it's just one more thing. You know, just one more thing and I've worked so hard and this and that and like the instinct might be to be like, fight harder, right? Instead of saying like, Wait, was I given space? I was like, given a gift like I have, I have to stop. My body's telling me to stop and then we feel like no, no, no, no, no, like, don't let the checkboxes fall. And that panic mode will sometimes rebound right into something the same or even with another level of disconnection from our real alignment.
20:16
Yeah, that's so well said. And I mean, I think it's a it's a, it can be a topic of a conversation on its own, you know, because we are, we live in a society and it's changing, by the way I see like now in the past few years, it's been changing, but for by and large, we live in a society where this trajectory, if you will, that you're supposed to take it's like, it's like the only thing that you can do. The only thing that will be considered successful in life. And that's just not true. There are so many different ways to be successful. And let's even you know, talk about what success is, it's so many different things to so many different people. But as I've been on this path, I've told, I've thought about it so much. Like, why is it so hard for us to get out of that thinking that, you know, unless you're working in a corporation and receiving a salary, you are not successful? Or how hard it is for us to take those steps that we're outside of that norm. It took a real effort for me to shed that thinking, because, you know, I lived in that system for so many years, it was hard. But travel, by the way, is what helped me get out of it. Because of what I did, right after this happened, I booked a six month trip around the world.
And I said, you know, okay, let's jump right into this new lifestyle. Let's try to figure out how to be a travel journalist in those six months. But what was happening is that as I slowly slowly moved through the world, in those six months, I met people who are leaving differently than the corporate world that I left behind. And that helped me see Ah, okay, so there isn't a different way to be in this world and to operate and to live. And that was really monumental. I came back to the States, a very changed person. And then I could no longer see myself in corporate ever and still can't, you know, it's been six years now. I still can't imagine going back to that world where you're leaving, you know, for the paycheck for the mortgage for the car, for the promotion. I don't know, I just can't imagine that anymore.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 22:28
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Enjoy daily yoga practice and vegan meals, all while keeping our eye out for the beautiful northern lights that like to show off their magic this time of year. I only have six spaces for this unique adventure and a few are already taken. I'd suggest pausing this episode and hopping over to the lotus sojourns website to book yours today. Please share this experience with anyone you know who would love this restorative adventure. Want to learn more? You can listen to my soul of travel conversation with Molly Busby, check out episode 67. Now let's hop back to our soulful conversation. Yeah, I think it definitely I see that too and relate to that. And there's something about, as you mentioned, when you travel, and I think you start to witness joy, and you witness connection in a way that isn't valuable.
As often as much in this again, in this mindset in this culture, it's so self sacrificing, and family sacrificing like so many things, and you you set off somewhere and all of a sudden, you know, you're someplace where maybe you're expecting to come in face to face with, for instance, poverty or desperation or isolation and what you end up seeing is like, simplicity and connection and joy and you have these powerful moments and like you said, you're so changed you just you it like awakens a part of us that has just been sleeping in order to really kind of succumb to this other rhythm and that's like And once you wake that beast or I don't know, it's like better than a beast, I don't know the opposite. But like, it's amazing. It really, it really allows you to continue to say yes to the things that fill you up. And I know like, especially the past two years, I've been like, well, maybe I'll just look for another job. Like, maybe it's really time and I start looking. And then they're like, and the hours are nine to five. And you have and I just, I can feel it in my chest right now. And I'm just like, No, no, no, no, no, no, no. And not to say that that's wrong. It's just not right for me. And there's just something so valuable in being able to have that conversation with yourself.
25:39
Yeah, for sure. Absolutely. And that's like, I think we sort of keep saying the same thing. But travel. I mean, it just exposes you to different ways to live. And that's the most powerful thing that can happen to you, whether you're a child, whether you're an adult, you know, just imagining new ways of being and operating in this world is so powerful, and you have to go outside your doorstep just to see that. So that's, that's why part. That's why travel is so powerful.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 26:08
Yeah. Well, let's move into talking about that. So you had this vision you really wanted to travel? And how did that evolve into writing and photography? And really, I think, for you storytelling and capturing these stories of people in place, and communicating that with others, which, you know, I mentioned, I really, really love the way that you're able to kind of evoke that connection. But how did you begin to see that as your path? And why do you think that's so important?
26:42
Yeah, so I had a dream for a long time. You know, I've always loved traveling. I have had my camera on me since I was 10 years old. I always wrote, I was a little girl writing stories. And I always had the storytelling side of me, and I tried to express it in different ways. You know, I had a blog, at some point, I was writing fiction stories at some point, too. But I just never imagined that this could be something viable, or something that I could really devote my life to, you know. But then when this whole situation with corporate happens, and I took it as a sign, I jumped, I went on that six month trip around the world. And very naively, perhaps I told myself in the six months, you'll figure out how to be a travel photographer and writer, how to work with publications, you'll figure all of this out, no problem. And of course, that's not what happened. You know, that's not what happened first and foremost, because I was burnt out. And then I didn't give myself any time, or I thought I didn't need any time to recover. And I did, oh, boy, like most of those six months, I spent doing nothing and just recovering from the years of the corporate stress before that, you know. So when I came back to the states, though, I was very lost. I was very discouraged. I didn't make any progress on my dream. And my friends, and my peers kept getting promoted and advanced in their corporate careers.
So I thought, goodness, I made a huge mistake. But this is a story that I always tell in many different environments that I'm in because I think he's just so powerful that one night, I had a stroke of luck, or something that told me just sit down and write 10 things that Yulia will become by the end of this year. What do you want? Yulia? What do you want? Because we don't ask ourselves that question nearly enough. And answering that question means that you have to answer it in great detail. Actually, you can just say, well, I want to be a travel photographer and writer. Well, what does that mean? What does that actually mean? We have this sort of vague idea in our minds that, you know, there's something that we want, when we go down to the detail of it, and we start imagining the details of it. Oftentimes, it's like, well, is that what I want? Or is there something else, you know, we don't, there's no spaces in our lives where we do that kind of work for ourselves. And now that I do it a lot, it's just so interesting to me that we don't dedicate time and space to this, because this is probably the most important thing we can do for ourselves.
This gives us direction, this gives us you know, vision, where do you want to go with your life? Where do you want to be? It's so important, but we don't do that, you know? So that's what I did. And that's sort of how my paths unfolded that I gave that direction to myself with those 10 things on that piece of paper. And I started simply working towards each one of them. You know, figuring out if I wanted to work with Lonely Planet for example, what does that mean? How do I work with Lonely Planet? Let's go to their website. Let's start engaging on their Instagram. Let's start seeing all kinds of possibilities. Let's maybe find somebody on LinkedIn who works at Lonely Planet. Let's send them a message. You know, so all these things, but it gave me direction to move into advance in these points one by one, when it comes to storytelling, which was sort of your other part of that question, I think that's something that again, that was always in me. And I always felt that people are more alike than different. And we try to see people as different through various political cultural
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situations. But at the end of the day, we're all the same, we want the same things, all of us, all of humanity wants the same things, you know. And I just saw that so clearly, when I traveled, and particularly when I traveled to the regions of the world that in the Western world, let's say, we're always stereotyped as the other as the scary, you know, that's why a lot of my work is rooted in the middle eastern region, for example, because, you know, I've, from the very first time I came to the Middle East, I just saw incredible people, incredibly kind, welcoming, and amazing people, I didn't see all those stereotypes headlines that were so prevalent in the States, you know, and I don't know, that's, that's really the fire that keeps me going in this industry, I feel very strongly about this. And so I try with all my work, I tried to advance that understanding that we are all the same. And we need to spend time with each other. We need to share tea, we need to share a meal in a conversation. And that's the quickest way of, you know, removing those barriers and those walls that we build. That's why I started the travel company, because for me, it felt like I could write about Jordan or the region all day long. Sometimes the most powerful experiences are the ones that you experience yourself, so then I wanted to take it a step further and say, Okay, let's start bringing people here. And let's start showing them how amazing it is. I don't know if that answers your question. But that's sort of what drives me.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 32:09
Yeah, I love that. And that's, I mean, that's very much my motivator to I looked at, as I've traveled, like, what were the moments that stick with me? What are the moments that I can't let go of that I relive over and over in my mind as the most powerful. And as you were talking about, you know, breaking down these images and perceptions we have of cultures, especially in the Middle East part, I had an experience traveling, and it was really, really powerful. For me, I was younger, at the time, I was traveling with a lot of seasoned industry professionals. And like I said, we were in the Middle East, and some of the people were talking about, you know, being a little bit nervous, how are we going to be perceived? How are we going to connect culturally, again, this was not very long after 911. So there was still a lot of tension. And, you know, it was probably really amplified in that moment. But I was really surprised by these people that I just thought were, like, kind of beyond thinking about these things that I just assumed they would just be comfortable wherever they went. So that was like a really powerful awareness. And then we had an afternoon where we were able to spend time with this man who invited us to go to his mosque. And he, you know, he wanted, he asked if he could just share everything with us. And there were three women that were with him, which even in that felt like something that was breaking down a story in my mind that he was spending that time with us. And then he took us and he said, Man, I will show you how we prepare to enter.
And he showed us how they cleanse themselves in the mosque. And I was really almost in tears because I felt like he's giving us a sacred gift. Like, this feels like such a privilege to be a part of this. And he's doing it with so much love. And just like pride, like pride, like I'd never experienced. And then he took us in. And this mosque was like the most deeply served spiritual place I've ever experienced. Like, I just could feel the love of the people and the beauty of this building and nothing about it was about religion or culture. It was just about this, like human experience. And then he asked if he could read us his favorite passage from the Koran. And I was like, yes, like I'm in this experience, and he started reading and again, it was just like, it was so beautiful and authentic and vulnerable and honest. And like every time I now think of that region, this is the person I think of and I was like okay, this is travel. This is what travel needs to be and if more people had the privilege of connecting with someone in this way. In my mind, this erases all of these things we've created. And I just think like you said, this is, this is the mission. This is like, I feel like our shared purpose is to bring as many people into the spaces where they can have that kind of connection, and then come away from that, like ambassadors of, of the places that they've been and of the people that they've met.
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Yes, absolutely. So beautifully said, and I can only see tears in your eyes now. Talking about this, I can see how much it moved you that experience. And I can relate to that so much. Because, yes, and then you come back to the States, and then you know, all the questions again, how are you traveling there alone? Is it safe? Isn't there war there, like all those crazy crazy things, but I think for me, the hope is that if not erase the stereotypes and imbalance and and walls. Because that's also a very tall order for, for us. But I think at least pause the next time you're gonna read those headlines, at least pause and think about it a little bit differently. And that's actually one of the first ever groups I took to Jordan. Later on one of the people, that's what they message me with.
And they're like Yulia and and now that I'm reading the headlines coming out of the region, I can't jump right there, like into that headline right away, I'm like, But wait a minute, my experience there was completely different. And that's like the biggest, you know, praise from you, because that's exactly it, at least give it some space, don't jump into that headline, because it's so easy, right? We, you know, we all done this, where we're scrolling through our feed where it's coming, scanning those headlines, and it's just so easy to just intake those messages, you know, so yeah, it's my hope that with my work, whether it's the travel company, or whether it's the stories I'm doing, that people will be less, you know, inclined to jump into these headlines right
Christine Winebrenner Irick 37:07
away. Yeah. And, and to be fair, you know, when it's the the culture that we're immersed in, that is like, that is the natural response, that's, that's what we're shown that's, that's why it exists in many times is to actually create that immediate reaction, like, that's kind of a part of the process of, of storytelling from the other side of storytelling. Like, it's such a powerful tool, that's why it's used. And so I just, I really love that, that you have seen the power of storytelling for connection. And, and I think, like you said, you know, getting other people out there getting people to just slow down, thinking twice, tapping into themselves. I think, also, when we have a better sense of who we are, we also respond differently. Like, there's just something about the way that travel allows us to see ourselves as well. And, you know, when you're having that experience and connecting, like, you know, I was really learning about myself, like, Oh, I didn't know, I was so passionate about spirituality or architecture or, you know, like, so amazing to start to witness yourself in a different way. And so I think that's another reason why I'm really getting out there. And traveling is so powerful, too,
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for sure. And something else I wanted to say, as you were sharing your experience is that we're also ambassadors of wherever we come from, you know, and that's also a powerful element of this, because actually, it's not a one sided phenomenon, that there is a, let's say, a stereotype in the States about the Middle East, plenty of stereotypes in the Middle East about the states happen as well. And a lot of people there have very strong feelings about what the state is or isn't doing, you know, and so that whole exchange goes both ways. You know, when I come as a, someone who is based in the States, although hopefully, not for, not for much longer, I'm planning to move out of the states soon. But when I come as a person from that area, I'm also hopefully doing some work in dismantling some of those stereotypes for them, you know, so it's important both ways, for sure. Yeah.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 39:28
I really often talk about being an ambassador of where you're from and a guest of where you are and really creating that synergistic relationship that it really needs to be more well rounded. Like you've said, Well, you've mentioned a little bit about Nomad and Jules, we haven't mentioned it by name, but you mentioned that you wanted to kind of build on this work that you're doing in storytelling and as a journalist and bring that into that company. Is there anything else that you want to share? about why you created that, or how travelers know what that trip offers them in traveling with you.
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Yeah, as you said something about how we also learned something new about ourselves every time we travel. And so it's interesting because originally, my motivation behind starting this was that that I wanted to take it one step further, right and not just tell stories about the region, but actually have people experience the region, the way I experienced it, and share the connections and the relationships that I've built there, I have just some incredible friends there now, you know. But in the process of doing that, what I learned about myself is that I am actually so happy when I lead these groups, and I interact with these people. Somehow, I tend to attract very like minded people. Without fail, we've become great friends, and we see the world very similarly. And it's just such a, it's such an honor and a joy for me to be leading those groups. And I love it dearly, you know, every single group I just absolutely love. So yeah, our next one is coming up in October. I still need to put it all together and plant, but it's going to be in October, which is a nice time to be in Jordan, and I enjoy this side of my work very much.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 41:25
That seems like a natural extension. Well, I do want to go back to travel Media Lab and talk a little bit about that. So like, I feel like many of us in the space of travel, we ended up evolving and new things were kind of born out of this time where we're trying to figure out how we could continue to serve the community and connect with others. And for you, this was the evolution of the Travel Media Lab. So can you talk about what that is and and who it's for?
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Yes, um, yeah, like exactly like you said, if it wasn't for COVID, and the great slowdown of COVID, this wouldn't have happened because I was too busy traveling, I had no time to even venture into teaching or building community. But just before COVID started, I was already starting to think about teaching because people, you know, people would approach me all the time on Instagram and ask me all these questions. And so I sort of had the site inclination that I want to start sharing what I know. And then, of course, COVID happens.
And I had my first class, my first workshop in the summer of 2020, I believe. And again, what I discovered is that I absolutely enjoyed that part of my job, in that part of my work. And when I quit corporate and I started on this path, I told myself, that all the projects I will do from now on, absolutely must be projects that light up my high, my fire doesn't make sense for me to do something that I'm not like 100% passionate about, or engaged in or believe in, and go through all the instabilities of being a freelancer or the risk taking and all of that, you know, it just doesn't make sense. If you do, if you're going to do that, just go back to corporate and you have a nice, nice sort of nice salary and all of that. So that's what's been guiding my work and everything I've been doing ever since, you know, all the projects I've done, I've done not all of them are in the travel space, too. By the way, there's one project I was helping out with in New York, where a friend of mine was helping people to figure out what their next steps should be after corporate. And I absolutely loved that. I was just like, yes, let's help? You know, so I was leading a marketing effort for them, for example, and writing a newsletter and all of that. So that's how I guide my life, that's like, that's what guys my work now is like this light, you have you believe in it? Do you want to work with these people? And for this reason? Yes, let's do this, you know. So with the Travel Media Lab, that's sort of how the evolution happened. I just learned that all the women that were coming into the community, I just absolutely loved connecting with them, guiding them, sharing my knowledge with them. It happened by accident that it was all women.
I didn't set out to help women specifically. But somehow, in my first few workshops, only women showed up. So we sort of continued, and in the process, I learned that we have so many issues that we all deal with women specifically namely imposter syndrome, namely non-believing How incredible we are and unbelieving, that what we have to say matters, or that anyone will listen. And that extends beyond travel stories that just extends to how we act in the world, how we operate, how we show up in the world, the chances we take or don't take, you know, so funnily enough, a lot of what we do inside travel Media Lab is that boosting up of each other And reminding each other Hey, no, you are incredible, you should take that chance, you shouldn't go after that thing. You know, Travel Media Lab has evolved, we used to be called genius women, which was why I loved that name. But it also wasn't quite accurate to communicate that it's about travel media in the travel industry, you know, now we're sort of evolving. I still hold the focus on working with women, and helping women overcome some of those issues that I talked about in the travel space. But I also, by the way, love absolutely loved but Beth Santos, CEO of wonderful said, and the conference that you and I both just attended, that women's issues are human issues.
And everyone should be at the table when talking about that, that resonated with me so much, because I actually want more over male allies in our community now, because I, yes, absolutely believe that. It's like, we don't want to be in a vacuum. Talking about this, we want to bring everybody in and talk about these issues together in the travel space and beyond, you know, so that just resonated with me so much. So that's sort of the mission of this platform is evolving, that it's helping storytellers break into and thrive in the troubled media space, we do focus on women's issues, but we want everybody at the table talking about these, these things.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 46:29
Yeah, that is, thank you for mentioning that. That is definitely something that I think has come out of the evolution of my podcast, as well. And speaking with many women who are leaders in the industry, saying that, you know, it's like, we kind of needed this space to have these conversations, kind of like, get our thoughts organized, get our, you know, our values and our trajectory organized. But now we're realizing that there's only so much women can do and elevate the voices of other women without having interaction across the board and having supporters that are saying, okay, yes, like we see the space needs to be created for conversations across all genders and all identities. And this, as you said, like, women's problems are human problems. I think this was really, you know, brought to my attention as I've traveled as well, and seeing women in community and seeing communities where they had evolved to the point where women had started speaking with male leaders and communities and seeing what had evolved out of that interaction and engagement. And so I love that, that you brought that into the conversation. And I agree, I think that feels like a lot of people I've talked to are like, that's the next step. And a lot of people are in the precipice of creating that space.
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Yeah, for sure. And I, I love what you said that, you know, we do, we didn't need that safe space, let's say in the beginning, right, we needed that space where we could share freely, sort of how we feel and what obstacles we face. But yeah, the next step is absolutely we have to involve everyone otherwise, not much is going to change. You know, we can't just continue talking in a vacuum in our bubbles. So yeah, I'm excited about this next phase of this. And by the way, something that we haven't really touched upon, which is something that I tried to talk about all the time in, in, in conversations with people is this idea of, let's also not glamorize. All of this is really hard, like building your own business, building your own podcast, right? Being a freelancer, like, let's talk like, it's hard, it's hard work. You don't have the support of this huge system behind you that you did in corporate where you had the budgets, and you had a team perhaps to work with and the manager who tells you what to do. I'm sure you can relate to this, like this. This is hard work.
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But also, and that's what gives me the
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The energy and the passion to keep going day in and day out is that I absolutely love this. Like every day I wake up and I can't wait to check my email. That was never the case in corporate, you know, I would just, I couldn't I couldn't wait for the weekend in corporate. And now when I wake up in the morning, I can't wait to check my email because I can't wait to see what this new day brings with all the projects and everything that I'm working with. This is incredible. I guess trade off is not the right word. But this is hard work. It's not always easy. And we have to make sure that we have support as well, but it's an incredibly satisfying and incredibly rewarding path for anyone who is sort of ready to jump into it and start building.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 49:59
Yeah, thanks. Keiffer acknowledged that I feel like that's something also that I've really been focusing on and actually spent quite a lot of conversation with. And last weekend like, finally talking with people in person, it's as if I was meeting with my colleagues, right. We all have our own brands, businesses, things that we're doing. But that was our space to come together, like as a team and work through some of these issues. And that was one of the things that came up is that we're working so hard, and we're so passionate, and we're building these things. And what we realized is that sometimes we're building this really shiny exterior. And that's all people see. And they see like the successes and they see this trajectory, but they don't see like, the duct tape and the fallen down scaffolding and the like, how I'm propping this up over here. And I think I've got this covered and nobody likes to look behind that wall.
And that's, I think that's probably another part of this process is really trying to figure out and I was actually really thinking about this this morning, as I was driving. How do we show? Like, can you project success and be authentic about where you're at and where you're struggling? Because if you are a one woman, one person business, you can build an Instagram and a website and like this, this facade. And some of its true, like, yes, there is successes, but we're also not really being super authentic about who's supporting us, like the parts where we really are struggling and where we need help and support because we feel like if we let down that, you know that that mask, somebody will see that we don't have it all together, and then everything we've built will fall apart. And I feel like that is another space for I don't know how to, to unpack that. But I think it's a reality for so many people. I mean, it's not all by lines in National Geographic, right? It's so much that goes into creating these dream lives and these things that are aligned with our passion.
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Yes. And I, I mean, I had to mute myself because my dad decided to say something, too. But I was getting goosebumps as you were talking because that's exactly it. You know, and and I think it starts with having conversations like these and being really open and vulnerable. And it is so hard for us to acknowledge the side and to ask for help. And exactly like you said, we feel like if we ask for help, that means we've failed somehow. It's not true, right? Asking for help is an incredibly powerful move actually. And we need to start being better at it. I'm not so good at it, either. I've also been raised and trained in this environment where you have to do everything on your own. Otherwise, you're a failure, basically, you know, what, what, what a mindset to operate with? So yeah, I think starting with conversations like this, and even being more vulnerable on social media, or whatever other communications you have, and talking about all of the sides of it, not just the shiny side that because we all want to, we all tend to want to share the shiny side, right? That's natural, natural behavior on social media, we all want to share the shiny side, but I think sharing all of it as well is so important. Yeah.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 53:28
Yeah. Well, this has been such a brilliant conversation, I feel like the time is flying by. For people listening, I really encourage you to check out travel Media Lab, if you're interested in travel, writing, and also your podcasts which we didn't get to, which is an extension of that. So I'll have a link in the show notes. It's so great if this is what you're wanting to learn about. But I also find that conversations much like ours are also happening. And so it's just really inspirational, if you are really you know, looking at living your dream, and if you are really just wanting to learn, learn more about this, this way of living and being and learn from other women who have, you know, navigated this path. And yeah, I am just so excited about our connection. I just wanted to mention, there was one woman who I kept running into last weekend who was at several of your events, and we and we kind of chatted, and she was like, Oh, I'm not missing her next session on like, you don't miss it, because, like there's so much that she's willing to share for others to be able to walk down this path. And I think that's one of my favorite things that I've learned about you through our interactions and, and I really want to show up that way too is like, we might have learned all of this and you know, reach wherever we're at. But we also don't want to be standing there alone. Like I was like, you can do this to like, you can do this too. And I think it's such an amazing energy. And I think that's another one that we're getting used to is this thing that the only way we just achieve success is if we're at the top of the pyramid. And I just don't think that is the paradigm that we're trying to create, either.
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Oh, I love that you said that. Christine. I love it's so powerful. And literally last night, I was thinking about this because I was recording. Actually a recap, like a wrap up episode for my podcast that's coming out soon. And that's what I said at the end there. That's, you know, when you step into the light, when you share when you when you are actually not afraid to be visible. Because that's actually another sign that we didn't even touch on. But that's very common through a lot of the work I'm doing in the Travel Media Lab is that women are afraid to be visible to you know, you're not only going up through your own dreams and building your own dream life, whatever that is, but you're also showing other women. How is that possible? And I think that's, that's part of what ignites me so much now is that whenever I share my story, whenever I have these conversations, this is what I'm doing right? I'm sharing, I'm showing other women hey, look, you can do this. Come and join me, let's do it together. And let's not be at the top of the pyramid. Let's be in the circle together.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 56:26
Oh my gosh, so good. I feel like you said we probably could spend hours going other directions because I think you know, not only are we aligned in storytelling and connection and purpose and passion, but also this really creates spaces for women and comes creating this, this leveling up in this unified raising. So I'm so honored to get to share this with you. Before we end I have seven rapid fire questions that we get to play with but just really encourage listeners to visit your website, check out travel Media Lab and travel Media Lab podcast. I know you'll find something hidden in there that it's the message you're looking for. So the first question is what is your favorite book or movie that offers you a travel escape or inspires adventure?
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Oh, so many. But immediately what came to the top was Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov. It's a story about the devil coming to 1930s Russia, right after it went through the whole communist takeover of the country and wreaking havoc there. It's also a love story. It also takes place in Jerusalem or other places. And it's just an incredible book recommended to everyone, `` Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 57:46
Thank you for this . I'm a total book nerd, a junkie, a book appreciator or whatever. I have so many books and I love that I asked that question selfishly, really, because I'm always like the next thing and that sounds so amazing. What is always in your suitcase or backpack when you travel?
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My camera, for sure. My headphones, I hack for a long time. Transatlantic flights are podcasts. I love podcasts. And on the flight I go through so many of them I catch up to all the ones that I haven't been able to listen to in regular life. So yeah, my headphones are always there.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 58:28
I just actually on the way to weds finally got some bluetooth headphones, because my old plugin ones don't work with any of my new technology, I realized. And then I didn't have any of the right apps except for podcasts. So I listen to podcasts on the plane. And I was like, oh, no, like, here we go. I can feel myself like binging podcasts. Normally, I try to listen to a book on tape or watch a movie or something. But it was so amazing to be like, Oh, I just got four hours of valuable content. And from the wellness standpoint,
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I just love how I don't have to strain my eyes. I can just close my eyes, just relax and still do something amazing for my mind. So I love that.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 59:12
Let's see what has been one of the most memorable or impactful destinations you've visited.
59:19
Goodness, so many. But the first thing that came to mind was Mongolia. It was a really
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very wild
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terrain. It feels like it was at the end of the world. It was so hard to get to Mongolia it took so many hours. And it's just a beautiful, beautiful landscape and people and it's also changing quite fast. It's in flux. A lot of the traditional lifestyle there is changing. And if anyone has been thinking about going to Mongolia, now is the time to go because in the next few years the country will be very different from what it is today. So yeah, check out Mongolia for sure.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 59:57
That sounds like a whole other con. First question, but I'll put a pin in that one. Where do you still long to visit?
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You know, it's a funny question, because I just had this conversation with someone. Sorry, this is not rapid fire.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:00:15
Rapid Fire ish. I'm going to rename them.
1:00:18
Oh my goodness. Yeah. So like I've only visited 60 Some countries, and there's still so many that I haven't seen. But lately, I've been realizing that I tend to want to return to places I've already been to, because there's people that I love, and I want to see those people. So before when I was younger, I just yeah, let's go with the next one. What's next? Now it's like, I want to see the people I love who are in the places that I've been to. So no,
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:00:47
I love seeing that in people that it has also been a recurring theme that it's sometimes hard not to want to go back to the places that mean a lot to you. And if you take that time for that soulful connection, like well, I really want more of that. I'm a little nervous about going somewhere else and forging new connections. Not that you couldn't do it, but you're like I just want to really want to treasure the ones that already exist. What do you eat that immediately connects you to a place you've been
1:01:16
Nafa Cafe is a Palestinian desert so you can find it all throughout the Middle East region. The best one is a man in Amman is in a place called Habiba Habiba suites in downtown Amman. It's a little tiny, like a little hole in the wall place but there's always like this huge line that extends, you know, throughout the street there and they've been there forever and they have the best Cafe is this cheese and rosewater and Qatif pastry dessert. That's just absolutely incredible. I I love eating it. You can find it here in the States as well, by the way. But yeah, it's cool now to face the cold.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:01:57
Who was the person that inspired or encouraged you to sit out and explore the world? Was the person? Goodness?
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Don't know, I think I think just by the way, I was raised, you know, just moving between Estonia and Kazakhstan all the time. It was just so natural. So I guess my family? Yeah, I would say my mom, my grandma, who always moved around as well. But it was very natural to me to do that from an early age.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:02:28
And the last is if you could take an adventure with one person, fictional or real, alive or past? Who would it be?
1:02:36
Ah, goodness, who would I want to go travel with? It's? Oh, my goodness. That is a great question. You don't have fellow photographers. I've been surprised at how amazing it is to go. I have two photographer friends. We recently went to Egypt together. And it was one of the most amazing trips I had, we were so aligned with what it is that we wanted to get out of the trip the way we moved through the places the way we interacted with people. It was just such magic. Yeah, I want more of that. So traveling with fellow photographers. It's amazing.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:03:10
Yeah, thank you. Well, thank you so much for this conversation. It's really just the exact reason why I started doing this in the first place. It's so nourishing, and I really, really treasure the time that we've gotten to spend together today.
1:03:25
Me too, Christina, me too. Thank you so much. Very thoughtful questions, beautiful reflections on everything. And I feel like we need to continue the conversation going because it's been really nourishing for me as well. So thank you.
Christine Winebrenner Irick 1:03:38
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